tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-46363020215297606582024-03-06T01:28:51.513+08:00Hijab HavenThe Hijab Fashion, The Muslimah's Passion...hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.comBlogger59125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-10031508942225825322008-03-12T20:59:00.004+08:002008-04-14T09:26:37.688+08:00Desert Store - Still a Top Pick in the Haven<div align="justify">I think one of the difficult parts of being a Muslimah revert is adapting to a so-called Islamic dress-code that seems foreign, traditional and alienating. This does not mean that the traditional jilbabs and abayas should not be worn, but I can understand that they do look intimidating to those who have not had enough exposure to their appearance. Of course, by wearing clothes that are contemporary is allowed and encouraged should it make a Muslimah a more confident person and proud of her religion, provided they comply with the tenets of Hijab.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />So, I would like to re-visit Desert Store. It is a great place to look for <a href="http://www.desertstore.com/">Islamic Clothing</a>, since they have the whole range of must-haves here in the store. Their jilbabs and abayas are extremely contemporary, yet modest. They jive well with busy-women-oriented societies - take formal and casual approaches as and when they have to. I would guess you can mix and match with shoes and hijaabs for the look you desire.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />Their <a href="http://www.desertstore.com/abaya.html">abaya</a> collection seems to have a predominently black theme, but which woman does not wear black? It looks professional, is gentle on the figure and is easy to match with shoes, bags and brooches. Having said that their subtlety in their designs give room for personality and spice. There are some really lovely embroidery.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />I also really like their <a href="http://www.desertstore.com/For-Sale-Directory/Jilbab-Islamic-Clothing.html">jilbabs</a>. I think the right jilbab makes room for a Muslimah in the corporate world. They really do - find a neutral coloured jilbab with a smart button-down front, and you will see what I mean. They are really attractive in all Islamic sense.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />I hope to see additions though in Desert Store. Their gown collection looks rather enticing for those all-female occassions, though I would not mind something in black there! I hope to see more hijabs. With the range of other clothing, a wider selection of hijabs would be a great complement to the store.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com60tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-23752055724603559962008-02-15T16:27:00.003+08:002008-02-15T17:28:52.801+08:00Pink for You, You and You!<p align="center"><a onmouseover="javascript:window.status='';return true;" href="http://www.clixgalore.com/Sale.aspx?BID=79945&AfID=162156&AdID=9117&LP=www.pinkauctions.tv"><img height="38" alt="Buy Or Sell Anything Pink." src="http://www.is1.clixgalore.com/cgd.aspx?BID=79945&AfID=162156&AdID=9117" width="150" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.clixgalore.com/default.asp" target="_new"><img src="http://www.cliximages.com/images/clixgalore/clixfooter.gif" border="0" /></a></p>Some girls go from hating pink to loving it. Some go from loving pink to hating it. Blame it on our hormones. So maybe you are saying you never liked pink or you have always liked pink. I guess it's really a personal choice.<br /><br /><div align="justify">That's probably why I love Pink Auction! Here is a playground for only the pink. </div><br /><div align="justify">If you love pink, pick up some new pinky, lovey, jazzy, sassy and funky clothes / accessories / trinkets / toys / laptops / cameras and even shoes.</div><br /><div align="justify">If you are far from the pink-lover, why not consider disposing off your pinks to Pink Auction. 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But somehow alternative and modern medicine have been at logger heads for longer than we know. It is quite ironic since once upon a time "alternative" medicine used to be the past's modern medicine. How else would have societies before survived without things like anaestheia and operation theatres. Ok, so that was random, but you get my point right?</div><br /><div align="justify">Even modern medicine is baffled at times at how tranditional remedies are able to treat and heal ailments, speed up labour and subdue pain. Alternative medications can include the consumption of herbs, massage, exercise and even using our body to combat potential medical complications.</div><br /><div align="justify">Allah says in the Qur'an that there is a cure for every illness and since the Qur'an is a book for all times, Muslims believe that civilisations living centuries ago would have their own set of medical practices that remedied ailments and saved lives. Undoubtly modern medicine has played a fantastic role in prolonging life expectancy and curbing illnesses through vaccinations and check ups, but turning to natural medicine should never be an option ignored.</div><br /><div align="justify">Cancer for example, I am sure it can be prevented or at least one can try to prevent it. The risk of breast, cervical and ovarian cancer can easily be reduced through breastfeeding. This, in its own right shows Allah's manifestations through His messages conveyed through our biological abilities.</div><br /><div align="justify">Just a thought! I am all for alternative medicine, especially where modern science leaves gaps in their literature.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-2609840067793724072008-02-02T16:06:00.000+08:002008-02-02T16:15:37.784+08:00Tips on Wearing HijabIt can be tricky, especially if you are just trying out the piece of attire for the very first time. Here is an interesting way to wear your headscarf - it is simple and stylish:<br /><br /><br /><p><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162292673707668946" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgu7qyq6Af2b21YLGpECITxCyLtzCD7Qb-DO5CqRqfWjPuN8jM6ogPBYis5Igm0RM_2GJPinmjq28LbS3yv6f3lc1veJmMYxYcYWuLilgU2hP7w6kJVwX3Tgh3q_m8VxEemjpE740hROzVU/s400/wrap-hijab07s.jpg" border="0" /></p><p>For more tips and tricks and a bigger picture of the one above, click <a href="http://2hijab.com/how-to-wear-hijab.asp?PARTNER=hijabhaven">here</a>!<br /></p>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-2934328607693191882008-02-02T13:08:00.001+08:002008-04-14T09:31:04.791+08:00Blue – The Colour of Fomality and Serenity<p align="justify"><a href="http://aljilbab.com/lamis_jilbab_3xl.asp?PARTNER=hijabhaven"></a></p><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162246923716031858" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjU7weeooAwM32Vvw27bSH_-4mAILifNfhNNoZcS2xJx2eHgGw9AJFdHteHqENAbJGZOMSU6m8FuPrDdDQZ4RyC_Q7BermhRKl1lQMu3BoFSlGGDQ0YB2uaPA-_vMtc49aqSiHGLTbsrAsp/s200/dark+jilbab+hedeyah.jpg" border="0" /> <p align="justify"><span style="color:#000000;">Blue is </span><a href="http://islamicboutique.com/diamond-stripe-abaya.asp?PARTNER=hijabhaven"><span style="color:#000000;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162246421204858210" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 89px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 119px" height="119" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGyjyZxht9kVOP6GkZNPT-cXFTVC-90je4GsY1E4e706gJ8T2xom_P24h54ivMRqP1lAXAJm7M5l1SyrDFwonpvHw-ba49PW5rkDOJmDmIg41CYUW_o-NjbiNv6lC-d7e_S1PePmYnRQCj/s200/abaya+IB.jpg" width="150" border="0" /></span></a><span style="color:#000000;">a popular colour in the office. It is formal and professional yet is simple and easy on the eye – without any fancy adornments. Blue attire is a popular colour as it implies seriousness without being overbearing or overly-intimidating as black.</span></p><div align="justify"><a href="http://2hijab.com/stripes_hijab_ref_1092.asp?&PARTNER=hijabhaven"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162245463427151154" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 77px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 123px" height="146" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGnMlacXDv-ETqbjzByRH2uP_W8OYfmfgNlAElEfnOE0mQcs7CqhRN_P4LmAeiIjcO5hmLqSVFmYG_NGOgkcKEYMmI_ivLbWtznGbJnk2Yw2DoV4P9EyqWOrIzxNTX-yHOFdm6zIp8enlW/s200/dark+stripe+2hijab.jpg" width="89" border="0" /></a></div><div align="justify"><br /><span style="color:#000000;">Whether it is a pant-suit (with a long jacket) or a dark blue abaya, blue brings the aura of strict focus on work in the corporate environment. Whether you are amongst colleagues, networking with clients or participating in presentations, the colour will never fail you.</span></div><div align="justify"><br /><span style="color:#000000;">In fa</span><a href="http://2hijab.com/cotton_hijab_006.asp?PARTNER=hijabhaven"><span style="color:#000000;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162246206456493394" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 72px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 109px" height="113" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieJ6STSipftFOJwx2kzEalqW2J8_EYfE_7umShQ9x4tofw_pBu9Wli0NcgYIG7T0tlFaeCwX-torhOmW9kb9ff2eq39YpAUOs30fU3K6lZZES8QlXR_TZL-zVZsCGKrCfYS946CquXyi6r/s200/cotton+hijab.bmp" width="80" border="0" /></span></a><span style="color:#000000;">ct, blue is such an easy colour to wear at work, it would be highly unlikely for you to feel embarrassed if someone else is wearing a similarly designed outfit or hijab as you.</span></div><div align="justify"><br /><span style="color:#000000;">Blue also denotes serenity. You may be hanging out with your friends after</span><a href="http://hedeyah.com/proddetail.asp?prod=pr008&PARTNER=hijabhaven"><span style="color:#000000;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162248001752823202" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" height="140" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6pIKtJzou2nbPUAux9yahuHz1Mi1EcgLkWtZIxVGd-u6XJ2sKrp6Uzi0bNxB2GkOulQve5OEgUoAC0edljNNpsIyIE-XtDu1rnR18h7oD26vUp6z7IQJxSgWcuC7SZTaCt78I_E9xvdQn/s200/jilbab+hedeyah.bmp" width="96" border="0" /></span></a><span style="color:#000000;"> work of enjoying a lazy date with your spouse. Blue communicates to your company that you are feeling relaxed and at peace at their presence. Blue has a distant effect on problems and worries and has the power to unclutter your mind.</span></div><div align="justify"><a href="http://2hijab.com/proddetail.asp?prod=1023&PARTNER=hijabhaven"><span style="color:#000000;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162248276630730162" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 77px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 107px" height="200" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiq45-IU4nXDtOvh-nqJYoTJ__AaBA-AyYggcn2yccWOr7B33J-8KjZj9Hjdyi_eS_qj2D7NgFilsyz0CfJeig0QsBB4Ru_68FzSc3RmXlXELymUBsEFF6fvGxyaQsUi_P16wSsd4IkwerK/s200/striped+2hijab.jpg" width="96" border="0" /></span></a><br /><span style="color:#000000;">Blue also represents the bright blue sky on a happy day and the vastness of oceans and seas.</span> <a href="http://2hijab.com/proddetail.asp?prod=0914&PARTNER=hijabhaven"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162245828499371330" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 76px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 104px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" height="176" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqEE_2C6SX7PaLL0-k5kWm_KDpi9jVoZCAi6xQNN3sCoRLX764nindXCuIE0QQSBOEe7awlfn_RU1-D-8ZPcIak3vr759vaTvsXT5biinYgc2fvZ5fDNw4PNE4QeGErufIf7RyL8IRHEC0/s200/floral+2hijab.jpg" width="77" border="0" /></a><span style="color:#000000;">Appreciating the colour blue reminds us of the natural gifts that Allah designed specially for us – through His emaculate beauty and adornment.</span></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><a href="http://aljilbab.com/proddetail.asp?prod=al020l&PARTNER=hijabhaven"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162253134238741954" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 73px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 131px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" height="156" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOIYqPBC40sQdCOLgZ3b1qJq_fumAZ38LebqeIGoef6AaPwoljoDm2PshqYyVLjr_KVF_8YSAgZEMyJU7FywkdTjcmH436WRFEWhI82ZNCN9iq-W_u2837mcuCsardY3ddmYNGi58VfhsF/s200/home+jilbab.jpg" width="86" border="0" /></a></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#000000;">Blue is an essential colour around the house to declutter the mind and unwind. Blue curtains, blue paintings, blue bedspreads all create the illusion of space and distance.</span></div><div align="justify"><a href="http://hedeyah.com/proddetail.asp?prod=pr008&PARTNER=hijabhaven"><span style="color:#000000;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162247718284981650" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 76px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 106px" height="200" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGUwlpOjg2ZxVPCkTLfgc43cP1P4Z8Wm4cAaJJRqNT4wC89pL1QRQhc09g9UFo7d6Mlv4IS1C1J1B7phFscV1ScLzpYNmA6JmmIZE4EqmlP1aDLpBZ1O6sd3YYfM-NVcXXuauWH06FCbGG/s200/sejadah+hedeyah.jpg" width="109" border="0" /></span></a><a href="http://hedeyah.com/proddetail.asp?prod=bc014&PARTNER=hijabhaven"><span style="color:#000000;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162247323147990402" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 63px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 99px" height="149" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOz1-CWJArTdYEaOvqyn1Ja2SV-1K8V6WNxOJ1GBMyWYzIigjwJGo6u-66Gvu8LPUPRGHR8lhXt4tCwnpYFf0bGAFQpls2v74XWM-DS1X6ABcVzMyDDGpcCjOkqxg3VUhsIxGU0LyBC0s8/s200/tasbih+hedeyah.jpg" width="150" border="0" /></span></a><br /><span style="color:#000000;">With peace and serenity in mind therefore, spending time in prayer is also useful when gelled with the colour blue. It is easy on the eye and can relieve you from your physical pains and aches through deep concentration on things that matter most.</span><a href="http://aljilbab.com/products.asp?cat=11&pg=8&PARTNER=hijabhaven"></div></a><div><div><div><div><div><div><div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-18351263268359119842008-01-30T11:02:00.000+08:002008-01-30T11:26:49.310+08:00Hijab Ban has been Loosened in Turkey<div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify">Shortly after the 1980 military coup in Turkey, the Hijab - the Muslimah headcovering obligatory upon all adult Muslim women, was banned for women engaged in any public facilit. This included public buildings, universities, school and government buildings - in short, Muslim women were not allowed to cover their heads once they were in the open. This contradicted violently with the tenets of the Islamic dress-code for Muslim women.</div><div align="justify"><br />In 2002, Tayyip Erdogan was elected as Prime Minister. Pictures of him and his families graced international newspapers. His wife and daughters were seen to fully cover their awrah, with the obligatory Hijab in tact. Tayyip Erdogan that the "unfair ban will be abolished."</div><div align="justify"><br /></div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5161105205444637970" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUm41XDNXA6-ws4J86V4Tc3_GdZl9NhyphenhyphenrGkbnuZNZUAg5wK_hmP24UZZEI5WX3gRdWSDwJehD6SmhCgHbmjQ4tVlp9qatBtV4WRuy5h_S2TWMD23tGsUgWgBJyrVvnNcaFGfQ4qUEObK2k/s400/Turkish+woman.jpg" border="0" /> <p align="justify"><br /><br />Recently, Turkey's ruling Justice and Development Party (AKP) and the far-right Nationalist Action Party (MHP) opposition party have thrashed out a <a href="http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?c=Article_C&cid=1199280005474&pagename=Zone-English-News/NWELayout">deal on a compromise </a><a href="http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?c=Article_C&cid=1199280005474&pagename=Zone-English-News/NWELayout">head-cover</a> to be allowed on campus after decades of an all-out ban.<br /></p><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMr322RBZJC0fKwCQjbR8Xx9pCYdEcHbNgeNAMjzaKKyUiOxbzwePQfdD-46Lf55TpZq6TkDj2rTmyyHaXM9WCe2heFviS5FHyP6vYyzBUWLSRvGu5pLZMkl3lumyFPL12pjW7wsSgNIXz/s1600-h/Turkish+bazaar.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5161105321408754978" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMr322RBZJC0fKwCQjbR8Xx9pCYdEcHbNgeNAMjzaKKyUiOxbzwePQfdD-46Lf55TpZq6TkDj2rTmyyHaXM9WCe2heFviS5FHyP6vYyzBUWLSRvGu5pLZMkl3lumyFPL12pjW7wsSgNIXz/s400/Turkish+bazaar.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div align="justify">Alhamdulillah, women now attending universities, will be allowed to tie a scarf that would cover their hair and head. Unfortunately the ban remains in tact for working women, the wrap-around head scarf and the face veil.</div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div align="justify">It has taken over 2 decades for Turkey, a predominantly Muslim country, to allow some Muslim women to observe some form of Hijab. We hope that progress will continue and practicing Muslims in Turkey continue to fight on for their rights to modest attire through their constitution.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-15651743710518908842008-01-28T12:04:00.000+08:002008-01-28T14:54:56.208+08:00From Brother Suhaib's Blog<div align="justify">This is a message from <a href="http://www.suhaibwebb.com/blog/?p=228">Suhaib Webb's blog</a>.</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">If you have an opportunity to adopt a baby who needs a loving family, please contact </div><br />Heather Van Brunt, M.Ed., LSW<br />Pregnancy Counselor<br />Children’s Home Society and Family Services<br />2230 Como Avenue<br />St. Paul, MN 55108<br />651-255-2410<br /><a title="mailto:hvanbrunt@chsfs.org" href="mailto:hvanbrunt@chsfs.%20org" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" ymailto="mailto:hvanbrunt@chsfs.org">hvanbrunt@chsfs. org</a><br /><br /><div align="justify">Adoption was an integral part of life for the first Muslims during Prophet Muhammad's (peace and blessings be upon him) time. This was to safeguard less fortunate children and bring them up as vital participants of the future Muslim ummah.</div><br /><div align="justify">Insha'Allah this baby will find a home!</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">Alternatively, shop for the <a href="http://www.hijabhaven.com/Muslim%20Baby.htm">Muslim baby</a>. I am sure her or his mother would appreciate any help that will alleviate her burden. Before you do that though, you may want to contact Heather Van Brunt to request for her permission - just in case. She may give you alternative address for gifts. This is just a thought of charity. Taqabullah.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-52267960967611870152008-01-27T17:10:00.000+08:002008-01-27T17:17:38.937+08:00Does Anyone Need Glasses?<div align="justify">I don't wear glasses myself but my friends and family who do always find it difficult to get a decent pair of lenses and frames for a decent price. Not to mention that to maintain a pair of glasses costs money too.</div><br /><div align="justify">Luckily I made a <a href="http://www.zennioptical.com/">great discovery: Zenni Optical</a>. If you are in need of glasses and sometimes find you fall short in that wallet / purse area, you may want to take a look at <a href="http://www.zennioptical.com/">Zenni Optical USD8 Rx Glasses</a> - meaning, as low as USD8.</div><br /><div align="justify">Let me know what you think of this site and how you feel about the range of glasses they have. If you feel it is the <a href="http://www.zennioptical.com/">best thing found</a>, then pay them a visit - there is plenty of designs to choose from.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-28172200678391450582008-01-25T11:59:00.000+08:002008-01-25T14:31:17.611+08:00Beauty within Marriage<div align="justify"><span style="color:#990000;">Among His signs is that He created for you spouses of your own kind in order that you may repose to them in tranquility and He instilled in your hearts love and affection for one another; verily, in these are signs for those who reflect (on the nature of the reality). (Ar-Rum: 21).</span></div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRzkzja1VYiBZh15jS6vwOLR6HH2YpB-nMMTdfVl69QgDflDkHtXabE50tZrpWGXm-HXokZgv3AQqm5LSvYelK8qQLrop8XZ_est2YU9SvMvCvJxbV64-S1TGVQEaqIlwesP1WClP1GK-k/s1600-h/heart.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5159297750062494946" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRzkzja1VYiBZh15jS6vwOLR6HH2YpB-nMMTdfVl69QgDflDkHtXabE50tZrpWGXm-HXokZgv3AQqm5LSvYelK8qQLrop8XZ_est2YU9SvMvCvJxbV64-S1TGVQEaqIlwesP1WClP1GK-k/s400/heart.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div align="justify">Marriage is such an important aspect of Islam that Muslims around the world look forward to marriage as a fulfilling journey in life. A lot of thought goes into search of a pious spouse - one who would always support you and make you happy & vice versa.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />After a few months or years of holy matrimony though, it is not uncommon to fall into a bland routine of obligation. Especially with the emergence of tiny feet pittering and pattering around the house. Similarly, everything that was once exciting after the wedding has turned into drab and boring clothes, meals, outings and even quiet time together.</div><br /><div align="justify"><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFB3mKvAobA6PYLxo7qFybxTqIPShRYYCoTyVWyTWJok9j_vVOEvNjihAmbEmdnyTMS2YCskzQYPTQitEB-XlKhjcCimzmAYfCctZFmIAE8Toap21qXiVil_Pmyc04bFuP36beeZvFJfR8/s1600-h/shopping+bags.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5159297844551775474" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFB3mKvAobA6PYLxo7qFybxTqIPShRYYCoTyVWyTWJok9j_vVOEvNjihAmbEmdnyTMS2YCskzQYPTQitEB-XlKhjcCimzmAYfCctZFmIAE8Toap21qXiVil_Pmyc04bFuP36beeZvFJfR8/s400/shopping+bags.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />Giving your marriage an overhaul could be as simple as dressing up once in a while, a different hair-cut, some make up and a new perfume. Not only will your new look be appreciated by your spouse, it gives you a chance to buy something new for yourself and rejuvenate your own sense of beauty.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />Marriage is beautiful but preserving the beauty within a marriage can sometimes be a chore so it is up to you to make it a pleasure. Making an effort to look good for your husband or wife holds many rewards and is a definite way of sprinkling some spice on marital bliss.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-46631245340696458892008-01-23T22:43:00.000+08:002008-01-24T09:33:28.302+08:00Spiritual Boost<div align="justify">Every once in a while we need a spirituality boost. Our imaan fluctuates. Some days we're jumping up and down ready for every prayer, supplication or dhikr. Other days are laced with lethargy and right-down laziness. Muslims are obligated to curb their imaan cycles from hitting bottom low to often. Do you? Do I? I guess that's for me to answer... but since we are all the same, our answers are probably the same, only the severity of the fluctuation differs. </div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">Anyway, I found this site called <a href="http://experiencingpsi.com/">Experiencing Psi -- Spiritual Consciousness</a>.<br /><br /><br />It deals very much with the power of psychic or your sixth sense. I guess I would say I believe in those - since Allah Ta'ala speaks to us in His own ways - anything is possible. If you are interested in the powers of the subconscience and how you manipulate them to find inner peace and quiet, you should visit the site. There are some good articles there.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />Like the post on telepathy. I was thinking about one of my closest friends/ whom I had lost touch with for over a year. I was at a shopping complex and nursing my son in a nursing booth with my head on the wall. Next door I could hear a baby chattering away with his mum. I thought to myself, "gosh, it would be nice if M was int he next booth - I have not seen her or her baby in over a year." I packed up once my baby was done with his afternoon snack and went off to look for the other members of my family. </div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />Right in front of me was M with her baby. It was amazing, masha'Allah. She was not in the next booth, but she was around the corner. Could that have been telepathy?</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">I am sure some of you have had similar experiences - like when the phone rings, you have an inkling of who the caller is. I guess it is something like that.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />I checked out the site and it does not weigh down on spirituality of any one religion. But as Muslims, (like other sites) use this one responsibly - remember it is Allah who determines our fate and our relationship with him surpasses any other beliefs - shirk is also a major sin, so remember to avoid that. Insha'Allah we will all be able to attain that place of ultimate peace and quiet in our lives!</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-82736744447766121782008-01-22T22:24:00.000+08:002008-01-22T22:36:32.882+08:00Ya Allah, where is Sharlinie?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglZ607eXofmBkAomXvG8Ekiv6wniin2boPKijHuCDhig_FEZcvSaARTvOeq2bhBckNo-fV-lN-TrH_qCYApMywCvrhah6caQYtx-Xp1zQQeS1uK0o8658_SSOOgAkpRbhNqSM9QWohkQzY/s1600-h/sharlinie.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5158307110011340962" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglZ607eXofmBkAomXvG8Ekiv6wniin2boPKijHuCDhig_FEZcvSaARTvOeq2bhBckNo-fV-lN-TrH_qCYApMywCvrhah6caQYtx-Xp1zQQeS1uK0o8658_SSOOgAkpRbhNqSM9QWohkQzY/s400/sharlinie.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div align="justify">Sharlinie Nashar is still missing. She has been gone for 12 days. This is now the number to call 1800-88-LINI. She is 5 years old and is 1 metre tall. She has black hair and dark brown eyes. Let us pray that Allah will guide us to find her.</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><br /><br />Her mother was on tv today. She has all this while been shielded from the press, as advised by <a href="http://www.nurinjazlin.blogspot,com/">Nurin Jazlin's</a> parents. They fell prey to the media's vicious attacks and sensational stories when Nurin went missing and was found dead many days later.</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><br /><br />Sharlinie's mother was visibly distraught when she told reporters: </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#990000;"><br /><br />"Please, if anyone has seen Lini. Please, if you have taken my daughter... please, giver her back. I miss her so much."</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#990000;"></span> </div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#000000;"><br /><br />That was enough to set off my water-works even though I was in the middle of feeding my picky-eater toddler and trying to keep my monkey climbing baby who was wriggling out of his car seat. The tears just leaked out as both my kids went wayward with their own minds and little mits.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#000000;"></span> </div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#000000;"><br /><br />Later tonight while I was putting my babies to sleep I thought of Nurin and the pain and suffering she endured before her death. I thought of her parents and Lini's and the waterworks started up again. May Allah take care of them in their difficults times of need and may He protect all other families and their little children from the taunts of such heinous criminals.</span></div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-20305475868208229992008-01-22T20:43:00.000+08:002008-01-22T20:56:40.301+08:00A Muslimah's Reflections on Hijab<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEithlfzEq1mc6clwp_kVg-qkEof3LwHV0T7-OeRHORxwPo690QudQapZqi8ajWn0HqN61uTvYh54HTZKCkc9St03JT4ODjOf9C-iOrb-epUur2rccYh8BjtTvaWdpUzcm7wsq-rSsrTIiWe/s1600-h/3muslima.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5158283586475460754" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEithlfzEq1mc6clwp_kVg-qkEof3LwHV0T7-OeRHORxwPo690QudQapZqi8ajWn0HqN61uTvYh54HTZKCkc9St03JT4ODjOf9C-iOrb-epUur2rccYh8BjtTvaWdpUzcm7wsq-rSsrTIiWe/s400/3muslima.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div align="justify">Every once in a while it is a good idea to remind one's self on the importance of Hijab. It can be only read through the Qur'an and Sunnah as to the beautiful directiv of Hijab upon believing men and women. Veiled Muslimah speaks soundly about the dress-code pertaining to Muslim women. </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">Masha'Allah, it is a <a href="http://crazyblueh.blogspot.com/2008/01/conditions-and-rulings-of-hijaab.html">beautiful read</a>. Enjoy!</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-75470039509397306722008-01-22T18:21:00.000+08:002008-01-22T18:47:31.083+08:00Sisters Winter Issue<img height="1" alt="" src="http://www.sisters-magazine.com/affiliate/scripts/sb.php?a_aid=b52069ba&a_bid=469e4731" width="1" border="0" /><br /><p align="center"><img src="http://www.sisters-magazine.com/image/issue4.jpg" /></p><div align="justify">I received my print copy today. <br /><br />Did I ever mention <a href="http://www.sisters-magazine.com/?a_aid=b52069ba">Sisters Magazine</a> is now in print? Masha'Allah, the magazine is gorgeous. I am so proud and honoured that <a href="http://www.nbrobert.com/">Na'ima</a> recruited me as part of the writing team. It is a blessing to be able to work with all the sisters involved and hold the final copy of all that nit and grit. But really, it is embalmed in tonnes of love and affection.</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><br /><br />If you have not yet subscribed, because it was only on soft copy - you really do not have a reason not to now. <a href="http://www.sisters-magazine.com/?a_aid=b52069ba">Subscribe now!</a> You will not regret it. There are so many articles on family values, personal development, Muslim communities, fashion, recipes, you name it.</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><br /><br />If you are not a Muslimah, I would still highly recommend this magazine. If you are interested in Islam in any way, this can be a little snippet into the *mysterious* lives of Muslim women. You'll find it is not too far different from your own. :)</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><br /><br />If you are a bloke wondering what on earth you're doing reading my blog, have no fear - you will appreciate this magazine. It's content and the advice, the graphics, the overall artistic value... if you have a special *sister* in your life, this would be the perfect gift for her.<br /></div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-83861626391334360952008-01-22T16:03:00.000+08:002008-01-22T16:18:30.728+08:00My Ashura Porridge...<div align="justify">It does not look as good as the picture I pasted <a href="http://hijabhaven.blogspot.com/2008/01/ashura-porridge.html">here</a>. That was courtesy of one of those <a href="http://www.fotosearch.com/">free sites</a>.<br /><br />But this is for Sister Maryam who has not had the opportunity to taste porridge. This recipe is different from the normal chicken / fish porridge I feed my kids and myself on lazy days. It is really called Ashura Porridge but the ingredients differ from state to state.<br /><br />This is what my mum-in-law put into her Ashura Porridge. </div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">(The picture below is also free and is not affiliated to my kitchen).</span></div><br /><div align="justify"></div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5158211418139986050" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh5quw9X3U8ma-XZik-4Tvg_xJW6OThUOfXKEUQFOloWucqcrBFzBmwS6UpRRTeBIrgKD5NL3HDK7sz3h83Igzi-lf-geqyje6ApiIlw-MMaT1bikyxg7u1dIWcsQ0gk2djQsdPK4ftXXHB/s400/Peas+and+beans.jpg" border="0" /><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><ul><br /><li>Sweet potato</li><br /><li>Barley</li><br /><li>Green peas</li><br /><li>Sweet peas (are they one and the same?)</li><br /><li>Chick peas</li><br /><li>Kidney beans</li><br /><li>Red beans too I think (are they one and the same?)</li><br /><li>Bananas</li><br /><li>Brown sugar</li><br /><li>Water</li></ul><br /><p align="justify">As you can see from this post, I am not a very good homemaker. And from the confession, I am not ashamed to say - if you ever wish to visit - let me know one week in advance. </p><p align="justify">Maybe I will post my porridge recipes some time later :p (to redeem myself).</p>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-32669018138645806482008-01-22T09:08:00.000+08:002008-01-22T11:10:36.753+08:00Keeping it Positive<div align="justify">Every year, for the past 3 years, I have made resolutions that I will be a more positive, optimistic person - generally, more likeable (even to myself) and motivated to look on the bright side at all times. But as the year wears on and events happen and rain pours down on me, I think... oh golly let's just go back to being my normal sarcastic, cynical self. By December I am always back to plodding along getting through the days, waiting for a fresh new start to motivate me into becoming this "better" person I am not.</div><br /><br /><div align="justify">I am all pro-positive thinking, but with so many problems happening in today's world, it is difficult to cope with adversities the way some people do. But since the world is make out of a vast number of speckles of different people, it is a good thing to read up on positive insights from around the blogsphere.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />Like this, <a href="http://www.dietmindspirit.org/">Diet Mind Spirit</a> blog - I mean, basically, it is all coined into a nutshell that self improvement really comes from the mind. It is always mind over matter. If you are able to perceive everything as being positive or pincer-pick out the optimistic values of any problems, you would have a whole new outlook on life. </div><br /><br /><div align="justify">Idealistically the mind would be able to control the body. But if you are stuffing yourself with a bucket of fried chicken and thinking about how good it tastes without its consequences on your cholestrol then that would not work either. Somehow, the mind has to be generated to think of the long-term effects on the body. That is probably why I end up finishing a few barrels over the year.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><br /><br />It is bad not to be positive, it affects your <a href="http://www.dietmindspirit.org/">body, mind and spirit</a> all the time. It also erases gratitude and has a negative effect on your spiritual life, regardless of your faith. It also hinders the motivation to move forwards in achieving dreams.<br /><br /></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify"><a href="http://www.dietmindspirit.org/">Personal development</a> is an integral part of survival in today's world. Complacency is a cancer of society and it has the ability to spread rapidly. So move forward, think realistically and always be positive! </div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">I received one of those inspirational emails from a friend today and being the cynic I am, I was skeptical about many... but I loved this one: <br /><br /></div><div align="justify"></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#990000;">Never laugh at anyone's dreams.<br /><br />People who don't have dreams don't have much. </span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#990000;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#000000;"><br /><br />I am sure Cate from Diet Mind Spirit would agree. Dreams are the foundation of <a href="http://www.dietmindspirit.org/">self-improvement</a>.</span></div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-41291536526770110352008-01-18T14:41:00.000+08:002008-01-18T14:49:36.513+08:00Ashura Porridge<div align="justify">Apparently, there is such a thing. At least over here. It is customary for Muslims (in some parts of Malaysia) to convene at their local masjid and enjoy a bowl of porridge. It is called Ashura Porridge. I guess it brings Muslims together to do what most enjoy - eating.</div><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="justify"></div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5156704576108824690" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZGQzFzxerpKGizoS3_V9cU3Y_SIOMKhOXJq58Y1E2D27djvJgUPJHR8Pd53Kna9e-l77nqTxUSJ_p7v5q3zLOwoUZKYak_132eAzvlt9VjvHpxd1bogx_wWkBJBekHzB1Grt0lG3J7vfW/s400/porridge.jpg" border="0" /><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="justify">Is that not cute? I have never heard of it before, but since I am at my in-laws' this Ashura, we will be trooping along to enjoy a bowl each tomorrow, insha'Allah.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div align="justify">For those who have fasted today, may all your sins have been forgiven. If you could not fast, <a href="http://islamtoday.com/show_detail_section.cfm?q_id=949&main_cat_id=9">click here</a>.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-80309747591846767602008-01-18T11:15:00.000+08:002008-01-18T11:51:27.399+08:00It Does Not Mean You Do Not Care!<div align="justify">The Qur'an warns strictly of the care facilities that one has to provide for their parents, especially as they move on to the old sensitive age. This includes financial support, shelter, medical facilities, continuing education (especially religious education), a sense of belonging and plenty of love and care. Sounds like taking care of your new-born does it not? As my husband says, as we grow older, we tend to grow younger - not in a good way but physically, mentally and socially we are unable to do most of the things we were able to do when young. Sounds about right, does it not.</div><br /><br /><div align="justify">Most Muslim families have their parents live with them once they reach a certain age - it is an honourable thing to do, to take care of your parents - should anything happen to them, at least you are there and readily available to jump to their needs.</div><br /><br /><div align="justify">I once spoke of this to a non-Muslim friend who was having difficulties coping with her grouchy, diabetic and extremely stubborn grandfather who was spending his cranky days terrorising her working mother, instead of his own son. She was so flabberghasted that she wanted to shift him off to a home. Our Muslim friend disagreed, saying that it was their duty to take care of him, regardless of his attitude.</div><br /><br /><div align="justify">When they finally asked me what I thought, they were shocked to know I sided with my non-Muslim friend. My opinion was this, both his son and daughter-in-law worked long hours, and the 6 grandchildren who stayed with him either worked like their parents or were studying vigorously in school / university. He was left at home everyday, with a maid who did not speak the same language. He had a strict diet that he refused to follow and was generally grouchy and temperamental.</div><br /><br /><div align="justify">What he needed was this - a place to socialise with plenty of cheerful peers, avenues to exercise, medical care provided by personnel he could not bully and he needed to get out of the house. This was for his own good as well as the family's.</div><br /><br /><div align="justify">Personally, I think care homes are good for the elderly, all for the reasons above. At this age, they are free from any burdens of cooking and cleaning and working in general and they should be allowed to kick with buddies of their generation with a glass of milk and diabetic cookies, do some light exercise in the park and have professional people look after them. They should also be given their own time to reflect on life and read the Qur'an as often as they like. I'm not saying we should discard them completely - if it is possible for them to come home and sleep at home, then by all means, pick them up after work. The point is, they would not be alone at home during the day. It can be lonely for them, and sometimes depressing if everyone is rushing about, in and out of work, school, clubs, sporting activities, music classes. It happens - life goes on for the next generation and it is within their duties to make the best of their lives too.</div><br /><br /><div align="justify">Loving your parents does not mean you have to keep them bottled up in the living room the whole day - it is much like your children, you have to let them off to pre-school one day, just for the sake of getting up and about, out the house and learning something new in this unlimited world of wisdom. It is also a time for them to make friends and talk to other people. The elderly need that too, especially if a spouse has passed on - moping around at home can lead them down memory lane's more painful trips.</div><br /><br /><div align="justify">If you are concerned about sending your parents off to <a href="http://www.bettercaring.com/">care homes</a> as you should be, take time to do some research on the different types of care available. If you parents have conditions such as diabetes, high blood pressure, take time to look around for care-providers that will help them with their medication. Check if you can send your parents to homes for day-care only, much like pre-school, if you do not want them lodging there permanently. Also ask about the activities they arrange - like exercise and other social activities that will benefit your parents. If keeps the mind and body fit at all times. If you still have qualms about homes, you may want to consider bringing care into your home - that is also a viable option, though without the social aspect.</div><br /><br /><div align="justify">If you are living in the UK, <a href="http://www.bettercaring.com/">bettercaring</a> provides a whole list of caring homes for the elderly, that way you would be able to contact them directly and even pay them a visit, with your parents to check out their facilities and meet their people. It would be worth a search, in my mind.</div><br /><div align="justify">Most homes provided that. <a href="http://www.bettercaring.com/">Bettercaring</a> will help you with all your questions if you are looking for options that will help your parents through their later years of their lives. They should happy years and they deserve that - it is part of caring for them.</div><br /><br /><div align="justify">I don't think my friend ever desposited her granddad into a home - as she put it. The facilities do not really exist in Asia, and besides the norm would be to keep your parents in your own home. I know many Muslim families here though feel there is a need to change. My mum-in-law mentioned that a few friends of hers put their heads together and rented a small house for all their parents to stay together. There they set up all the facilities for them to live comfortably and hired an Ustaz (religious teacher) to sit with them and read the Qur'an and tell them religious stories - just to remind themselves of the importance of being a Muslim. On the weekends, after five days of activities and pot-luck meals, they all return home to their families with a bundle of stories of their own to share with their kids and grandkids.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-11135615330407890492008-01-17T21:12:00.000+08:002008-01-17T21:39:30.395+08:00Do you have a Shirtdress?<div align="justify">This must be the perfect piece of attire for the modern muslim woman who spends most of her days outdoors. I found the piece while browsing around <a href="http://www.hermodesty.com/">Her Modesty</a>.</div><br /><div></div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5156439520792086626" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXhVqZwE6TGSd5KEve34ug22Gmj2-qN4id-_IoCSJmvP-lcgNKc78iQw7wlt0YSOEt40RPLLp-6hp4oec5ZfkxI3MKrSXViOLojAeQF7bkpDzKZuqZANlUeaNF7ivaj0jactosLBO9DMwm/s400/103107shirtdress9.jpg" border="0" /><br /><div align="justify">I think it looks chic, classy and extremely comfortable. Best of all, it covers well and can be worn with a long skirt or trousers. It is also extremely versatile and you would fit in well, whether at work or running to the grocery store.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div align="justify">The shirtdress works perfectly for those who do not have access to abayas and jilbabs - or for those who just do not prefer to wear one-pieces, whether at work or out on chores. Imagine it as a long top that does not display your precious curves but allows you to move freely and quickly when on the run. I am guessing it is also easy to slip on and off when moving in and out of your house.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-3437111909204930922008-01-16T21:22:00.000+08:002008-01-16T21:34:45.514+08:00This is Sharlinie Nashar - Have You Seen Her?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnipnso2gm889ELeBDFLjX-HWyv1xekU1zQvcw2DdBAm76oZwy3Ih-El5J7HqvAcisytMd8gdVfdf0xvWBwNUKklB-9DLGtfpUr7MF8Et2QW-vX7UUqMZMydvbMRlhOb24jHBN-kKhqGv-/s1600-h/sharlinie.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5156065497860081746" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnipnso2gm889ELeBDFLjX-HWyv1xekU1zQvcw2DdBAm76oZwy3Ih-El5J7HqvAcisytMd8gdVfdf0xvWBwNUKklB-9DLGtfpUr7MF8Et2QW-vX7UUqMZMydvbMRlhOb24jHBN-kKhqGv-/s400/sharlinie.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div align="justify">If you have seen this girl, please contact RakanCop at 603-21159999. The man on the left is the sketch of the suspected abducter.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div align="justify">She has been missing for over a week now and we are worried that her fate will be the same as <a href="http://www.nurinjazlin.blogspot.com/">Nurin Jazlin's</a>.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div align="justify">Please make du'a for Sharlinie (Nini) and her family, for them to be strong under these difficult circumstances. Please also remember Nurin in your prayers, as well as her parents and sisters.<br /></div><a class="quickedit" title="Edit" onclick="'return" href="http://www.blogger.com/rearrange?blogID=4916628595638017957&widgetType=Image&widgetId=Image5&action=editWidget" target="configImage5"></a>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-11976220618411513502008-01-16T13:37:00.000+08:002008-01-16T14:37:04.924+08:00Relinquish Yourself From Debt NOW!<div align="justify"><a href="http://muslimmatters.org/2008/01/14/muslims-guide-to-debt-and-money-management-part-3/">Muslim Matters blogged on something important</a> a few days ago. DEBT! We all are acquainted with the pains and bruises that debt can cause us. Especially for Muslims, and I think, other faiths of the book, interest is gravely prohibited, whether we are a borrower, lender or privy in any way to an interest-based contract - it is a grave disobedience to one of our religion's directives to "not take interest" (Prophet Muhammad's (peace and blessings upon him) final sermon).<br /><br />There are plenty of financial consultants, websites, help-articles, magazines, books and even tv programmes available to educate and help debt-ridden members of society to get back on the right track - back into the green. Advice usually revolves around the importance of using only cash when spending. Avoiding interest at all costs definitely helps save money and reduce stress and tension in the household.<br /><br />However, there are times when one, Muslim or not, may need to apply for credit cards and / or personal financing. As a responsible Muslim, it is important to exhaust all options in searching for Shari'ah compliant instruments that avoid the concept of interest. The best way to do this is to become educated on the different forms of financing there are in the market. Learning and shopping around will deter rash decision-making that can lead to unwarranted stress and rising credit problems.<br /><br />So whether you are a fresh graduate looking to build a future or someone with <a href="http://www.badcreditoffers.com/">bad credit loans</a>, <a href="http://www.badcreditoffers.com/about/">Bad Credit Offers</a> is a consultation web-site that is geared in easing the stress of debt. Firstly, they have shopped around for credit cards and financing options that will mitigate the risk in falling the red. Education is the other element of this credit service. By helping their customers understand their spending habits and eventually their credit standings (through their consultative services), you will be able to pro-actively curb the risk of over-spending in the future. </div><br /><div align="justify">Over all, they are really looking into helping those who are struggling with credit problems with alternatives to consolidate their debt into one single source and provide steps in repaying the loans / interest at the soonest. <a href="http://www.muslimmatters.org/">Muslim Matters</a> stated that 43% of Americans are spending more than they can earn - that is a serious responsibility issue.</div><br /><div align="justify">However, this does not stop those who are already in the green from learning about how money works. We can never be to careful when spending our salaries, especially if a credit card is at hand. One too many swipes of that piece of plastic can push you over the edge when the bills arrive.</div><br /><div align="justify">Managing money is really mind over matter - it is pure discipline and to arrive at that mind-set, it is best to educate yourself on the options there are in the market for financial help; your own salary and how to apportion it on necessities; and finally how to avoid over-spending, since this is the main cause of debt in the first place. But no matter how many web-sites you visit or how many books you buy, at the end of the day, it is up to you to take control over your cash outflow and to be responsible and honest with yourself and your family before matters get out of hand.</div><br /><div align="justify">Sometimes it is easier said than done. But insha'Allah, if there is will, there is a way to get back into that green zone of comfort.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-74103259496100579842008-01-15T11:00:00.000+08:002008-01-15T11:14:38.632+08:00Buying Medication Online - only for responsible shoppers<div align="justify">Shopping online can be fun. It can a breeze for those who are looking for hip and happy apparel and accessories. But there is also the market of serious shoppers - and by serious I mean those who are shopping for necessities - like medication.</div><br /><div align="justify">I never had really thought about purchasing medicine online. Somehow, you would always visit your physician or tinker by the pharmacist. But I guess an <a href="http://www.buy-pharmacy-online.com/">online pharmacy</a> sounds viable. It would actually save time on the road and in queues. It would also save money (if you are looking at transportation costs). But online shopping does that and online pharmacies are now available to ease your chores of the week.</div><br /><div align="justify">I mentioned being a responsible shopper when it comes to buying prescribed medicine through the internet for obvious reasons. Though <a href="http://www.buy-online-pharmacy.com/">Buy Online Pharmacy</a> provides a questionnaire to ascertain the viability of your medication, it is really up to the consumer to be honest with him or herself before purchasing and ultimately consuming the medication.</div><br /><div align="justify">But the good thing about a store like this, is that it houses a range of medication that treat a wide range of ailments such as muscle pain, headaches, anxiety and health conditions that affect both men and women. Prices seem to be competitive too with guaranteed overnight shipping.</div><br /><div align="justify">It really is up to you to determine your level of comfort when buying prescribed meds online. Since the website is managed by licensed physicians and pharmacists, you can always contact them unlike physical clinics and stores that operate only during business hours.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-7196546514801085692008-01-15T10:38:00.000+08:002008-01-15T10:58:14.521+08:00Modern Mama, Modern Baby<div align="justify">If you are a fan of contemporary art, you have to check out <a href="http://modernnursery.com/">this site</a>. <a href="http://www.modernnursery.com/">Modern Nursery</a> is just brimming with modern ideas for your baby's life. I really had to share this store with you and have half the mind to add it to Hijab Haven's <a href="http://www.hijabhaven.com/Muslim%20Baby.htm">Muslim Baby enclave</a>. </div><br /><div align="justify">It's amazing. I love the furniture and the toys; the books and all the interior decor.... meal time at my household would be a real waste if we did not use any of this <a href="http://www.modernnursery.com/items.cfm/FrescoHighchair/0/pcid/1/cid/114/">funky high chair collection</a>. Though I do find this <a href="http://www.modernnursery.com/itemsDetail.cfm/SecretMissionUglydog/0/item_num/UD-SMUD/pcid/13/cid/39">uglydog doll</a> rather disturbing - it is far more suited to a wonky teenager in those weird hormonal years. But you never know, there may be little tikes who appreciate toys like that one.</div><br /><div align="justify">But my favourite pieces of furniture are definitely ones that can store all the clutter. <a href="http://www.modernnursery.com/items.cfm/count/1/pcid/1/cid/7">STORAGE!</a> I know it's impossible to have everything in hiding, but if I ever had a chance to design my dreamhouse, all the walls would be built-in cupboards. </div><br /><div align="justify">Anyway, if you are shopping for your baby, remember to check out <a href="http://www.hijabhaven.com/Baby%20Gear.htm">this page</a>. There are clothes, toys and <a href="http://hedeyah.com/proddetail.asp?prod=kt021&PARTNER=hijabhaven">Muslim dolls</a>. I'm glad Barbie is being outshone in the girlie market - I used to have plenty of Barbie dolls growing up - I guess I was unlucky that <a href="http://hedeyah.com/products.asp?cat=47&PARTNER=hijabhaven">Leen</a> was not around yet. In fact, I might have even preferred the ugly doll set available at Modern Nursery. Who knows?</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-68234567917210360102008-01-14T09:38:00.000+08:002008-01-14T11:58:03.699+08:00Islamic Bouitique - A Store ReviewShopping for clothes that comply with Islamic requirement can sometimes be a chore, especially when you are living in the West, and the range of longer, larger, less fitting clothings are sparse. Even in Asian countries, where fashionable attire can be a hype, Muslimahs often find it taxing to find a decent outfit that will comply to their requirements to <a href="http://www.hijabhaven.com/Muslimah%20Outdoors.htm">cover when outdoors</a>.<br /><br />That is why I started this site - to help Muslimahs in the West find their outdoor <a href="http://www.hijabhaven.com/Abaya.htm">abaya</a>, <a href="http://www.hijabhaven.com/Jilbab.htm">jilbab</a>, <a href="http://www.hijabhaven.com/Headscarves.htm">hijab</a> and even their pair of <a href="http://www.hijabhaven.com/Sockrush.htm">black socks</a>. LOL.<br /><br />One of the first stores I was attracted to was <a href="http://islamicboutique.com/default.asp?&PARTNER=hijabhaven">Islamic Boutique</a>, due to their range of Abayas. You know you would be comfortable donning an Abaya outdoors, and their range of designs, fabrics, colours and matching <a href="http://islamicboutique.com/products.asp?cat=9&PARTNER=hijabhaven">Hijabs</a> provides for the Muslimah who is always on the run.<br /><br />Today I was dawdling through the store and found their <a href="http://islamicboutique.com/auctions.asp?&PARTNER=hijabhaven">Auction Page</a>. It is powered by eBay and it is great to browse through. Buying new clothes can be expensive, plus, shopping online with all that shipping costs can really bite into your budget. The alternative is to auction away at eBay!<br /><br />I am pretty sure <a href="http://islamicboutique.com/default.asp?&PARTNER=hijabhaven">Islamic Boutique</a> will surprise us with more designs and fashion statements for the Muslimah outdoors in 2008. I think alot of sisters enjoy trawling through their shop. Insha'Allah we will be able to find inspiration from within their philosophies.hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-64378449132299658192008-01-12T21:58:00.000+08:002008-01-12T22:44:22.841+08:00Australian Branch, Australian Pricing?<div align="justify">More on the shopping cart software. I came across this <a href="http://www.ashop.com.au/">website</a>, which is effectively the same site I spoke of two posts before. I guess this is their Australian branch. Since, geographically I am definitely closer to the land down under rather than the States, I thought I would consider this site over the former instead.</div><br /><div align="justify">After all, it still has all I need. A whole suite of services customised for the novice web designer / programmer. The complete e-commerce software would allow Hijab Haven to proudly present it's new store to it's shoppers. Apparently, their award winning <a href="http://www.ashop.com.au">shopping cart software</a> will allow premium services to my valued customers - YOU! I am only looking forward to servicing my dear Hijabi Sisters out there. And my other Sisters who are also in the same boat as I am, I am more than happy to provide information such as this on my blog.</div><br /><div align="justify">So I guess the only issue here would be the pricing - the only difference between the Australian site and the American one. Unfortunately, this is where things go awry. I ran a quick check on the exchange rate today, and I noticed that USD1 is equivalent to AUD1.12. So I was expecting the prices to be rather similar to the exchange rate.</div><br /><div align="justify">This was not the case, I found that A Shop Commerce is using an exchange rate of USD1=AUD1.45. Perhaps this rate was correct prior to the recent deterioration of the US greenback - I do not know, but the difference is rather substantial, and I am sure that Aussie service providers can undercut this price by far. The only other difference I can think of with regards to this discrepancy in pricing is the the transfer of technology to Australia. I'm not sure - but it is a site worth to look at - it gives a picture of what service providers need to emulate in order to attract businesses big and small.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4636302021529760658.post-87827551128682738682008-01-11T18:47:00.000+08:002008-01-11T19:01:32.683+08:00Meltdown Mania with Baby Bumps<div align="justify">Nope, no baby incognito but the ones that are out, up and about have been rather down and lowly lately. It's the weather - my kids are unwell and I feel upset by default. There has been non-stop wailing and screaming with meltdown climaxes that take place ever 3 .6 minutes. I feel so exhausted but I am pretty sure other mothers can empathise.</div><br /><div align="justify">It is a good thing that these meltdowns have just been taking place at home. I always feel bad for parents who have to deal with the mayhem when in public. It is like everyone is ready to judge you, unfortunately "everyone" in this context are the public without children. It's normal. I get it all the time. </div><br /><div align="justify">I have nothing against the general public who have not come to insane decision of having kids. It's true, sometimes I envy them. Care-free lives, movies any time of the day and night, naps any time of the day and night, baby-free mugs of coffee, long showers, proper meals, proper sleep. But I know of those who wish for kids and would trade their care-free lives for a day of my crazy one.</div><br /><div align="justify">I know when my kids finally weather the weather, they will be back to normal. I will still remain the sleep-deprived writer with half a novel to my name. I will still be diapering and washing sippy cups. I will still be cooking 24 hours a day for them and eating left overs. I will still watch Sesame Street and wonder if Elmo will help me potty train my daughter. All that is normal and I am thankful for that.</div><br /><div align="justify">Last night when my son's fever was at its highest, I was at my most afraid. Anything could have happened. All I wanted was for him to grow up into a good Muslim boy. I was hardly thinking of a care-free life - I was hoping for more responsibilities - enlightenment that he would get better. Alhamdulillah, all of us pulled through despite going white in the face. It was horrible.</div><br /><div align="justify">Insha'Allah after this round of antibiotics he will be back to his bubbly self. I have no reason for envy - I have to weather this weather.</div>hijabhavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09987267034026500215noreply@blogger.com0